Body language: what to do with someone who avoids eye contact?
The poor woman knows that her doctor is a veteran, and she knows that he did not carry the glasses until his eyes were tired of clattering eyes. Let her forget her with my love and forget the wounded with the wounded, and let them understand that I heal her from her air so that she may heal me from within.
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Nothing, just an opening quote from Zaki Mubarak because I adore his writing!
Talking to someone who avoids eye contact is annoying, so you make them look over your head (an unintended sign that they are looking for a better person to talk to), look down (a sign of their social anxiety) or at their phone. (Well, Instagram talk is much funnier than yours!)
How will you deal with each of these situations? When you're talking to someone who isn't looking you in the eye, there's a good chance that they're not paying attention to what you're saying, and that wastes time and effort.
Also in studies, "eyes chatter" increases friendliness and releases oxytocin in the brain, which leads to closer connections and bonds.
someone looking over your head
For example, if you are sitting with someone in a restaurant and they talk to you while they look over your head warily and avoid eye contact with you, do this trick:
Follow his line of sight, turn your head back and say, "Sorry, I thought you were looking there." By repeating this command, the conversation is interrupted and distracted, and he notices what he's doing.
shy looking down
If you are shy talking, and he is looking down, it may mean that he is trying to think of what you are saying, but is prone to distraction, so that it benefits him, and until the eyes contact, stop talking. To restore his sight to you.
For example: On that day we saw your mother in the market (he's looking down now..stop talking!)......(eye contact...come back to finish the conversation)...so she told us about the girl you liked ! (He fell into the trap, if he stays on his social awkwardness, all the better)
But if he's talking to you and not looking in your eyes, reward him with a smile every time he looks in your eyes, you'll see he's doing more.
Looking at his phone
Well, this guy is obnoxious, the problem is that we may all be, there may be a more important conversation than the one sitting with us, and that's not etiquette to talk.
For someone like this, you can stop talking when he sees on his phone that your talk is more important.
You can also use another trick which is to fight it!
- - Are you talking to anyone? In the language of peace!
- Is there a conversation worth watching on Instagram?
Thus, he feels that someone is interested in talking to him.
What are your methods for re-contact with the eyes?